Help w MLC / WAW... Jack 3 Beans?

[kjensen]

You've gotten some great input so far!

I thought my H's "rock bottom" was when he became suicidal afer I found out about the OW and the PA...The fake 'rock bottom" was in March 2009.

Long haul=years.

Talk to your wife aout letting you call and talking to the boys on the phone at certain times of the week. Send them things in the mail. Drive up to take them out when you can..Be the father they need, the father the wife complains you weren't.. Try using Skype if everyone has a computer so they can see you and you can see them!

Forget about the other man-really! Its never about the OM-they are a distraction to the pain...Ignore and don't snoop(speaking from experience of an expert snooper-it really does hurt us and focus or efforts in the wrong place).