Time. That's the answer that none of us like, but it's the one that does the most good. It takes time, and it can't be rushed. During the passage of that time, it is crucial that we continue to learn and grow, read, pray, talk, get counseling, get out and do things, be with friends, raise our kids and be great parents to them, etc.. It's like walking through the forest, and you can't see anything else because of all the trees. Keep walking, and the trees will eventually start to thin out, and you can see more. And then you keep on walking, and eventually you'll come to a rise, where you can look all around and see everything. It's work, for sure...and it requires a commitment.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
