Rocked, Wanted to share something I read online that has helped me quite a bit. Don't think I can post a link, but if you go copy and paste this you should be able to get there.
When the time is right, I plan on sharing with W also. I feel like we're pretty much getting there, but there are a few things she could do to get us over that last hurdle and if she reads this, maybe it'll help her see things from my POV and not so much how this has all affected her.
Hope it helps.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.