Stuck,

Thanks. I agree with you on all points.

SO2,

I don’t know what if anything would be a consequence to W. I’m not sure there is one. I guess it goes back to just protecting myself with boundaries.

I asked my BIL if he thought W has a conscience anymore. He said no. This stunned me as he was the biggest advocate of things working out between us with time and he had the most faith of anyone. For him to say he no longer believes she has a conscience, wow.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...