All of a sudden she has contacted me four times in the past two days.
I still have not contacted her back yet. Again, no huge issues as I see it. Nothing that can't be fixed.
When you are calm, call her back and let her know you received her messages and reiterate that you are willing to go to counseling with her but your goal is not divorce. That you want to make it work and see your problems as things that can be resolved, that you're pulling to put in the work. Do not tell her they are "minor issues" because she may feel they are are mountains, not mole hills. Also, tell her all the positive changes you've made so she knows what you've been up to (all great things, IMO).
Originally Posted By: mza8
When you separated from your H did you tell him that you wanted to end the marriage even though you might have wanted to work on the marriage?
He had a thing for threatening me with D and saying "It's not working, it's not working." Each time he said it, a piece of my heart ripped off. I asked him for about 7 months before I moved to do MC with me & he went once. After I moved out I still mentioned I wanted to go but no dice. Now he's mentioned it but my sitch is quite complicated there may be ulterior motives.
