The reason she came over is b/c earlier in the day we decided that she would come over to the house last night and we would talk about an agreement. I in turn told my S9 when he got home that mom would tuck him in tonight. About an hour later my W texted me and backed out on meeting with me. I did not want to disappoint my S9, so I asked her to come out and tuck him in. The positive is that she did it, and did not evoke the "distance" thing with me. I just have to mind my feelings and urges, and I think that any contact I do have will still be friendly. Day 1 of not initiating contact.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
