Okay, so it got the better of you and you looked...now you know.
The "just a friend" thing? Well.....you can decide that.
Snooping hurts one person my friend.....and it is NOT her.
You know now, so let it drop.
Can you truly forgive her ?
Answer that before you take another step...
I always said that in the affair, they were only getting the body, cause the mind was out to lunch....
Its not the "real" her they were getting...the deep emotional person I love.
The R talks ? Stop letting her push those buttons on you.
I know you want answers right now, but you would have a better chance at understanding why the Government covered up Area 51 than you will what is going on inside her head.......really...
Does it make you angry ? Sure it does.
Use that anger as a shield....to deflect her BS that she is spewing at you.....
Realize that everything she says to you is truthfully how she feels at the moment.....doesn't make it correct, just that that is how she feels and sees things.....
Believe nothing she says, although you have to put some thought into the complaints that reflect truth inside of you....
If it stings ?
There is probably some truth in it.....
Those are your reflection moments.....
Don't defend yourself, just when you look into that mirror....pull them out of your bag and evaluate them for yourself....
Don't use your anger as a sword against her Bradley....you cannot.
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reaching rock bottom soon I imagine.
Bradley.....I hope you are speaking about yourself here.....not her.
MLC is a loooong road my friend, and if you place a timeline on your stand, then you have already failed.....
True healing CAN only begin after rock bottom.....that goes for you too.
Have you hit yours ?
Cause you CANNOT assume hers, or what it will even be...
If YOU have, then use that time to look into the mirror and find the things YOU want to change about yourself.....
