WL, the A will end and then you will have to deal with the drug use. That will be harder IMO.
About other women not being interested in a man with kids...where are you getting your info?! I have 3 very attractive and interesting female friends who all married men with kids! One has a daughter from her first marriage. If you get to that point, you might just open your pool to older women (like 30-34?) or to other divorced women with kids.
WOW shocked that got brought up now.. LOL ... Belive me there are ALOT who dont like the idea of three kids. Yes your right alot don't care about that but, it is another big variable men or women base off of.
As for the drug use... IDK Its hard to say if it would be harder or not. guess it really depends on the person
and for the A Im a bit surprised its lasted this long and a bit disappointing. I read that the Average relationship lasts 5-6 months, she had to really make things in common with him. maybe since they just started offically dating with in weeks??? IDK
I had a talk With W last night for about a half hour, It started out about her not telling D8 the truth on what she has done and why she left.. She just kept talking even after a few light trys on my part to end the call.. W kept going into detail on here path to recovery and a future idea on leaving state to some type of halfway house.. (that struck me as odd since OM wont be able to see her)
She says she is scarred about court on this Wed. for her other pending issues,
she went on to say she was going to be hanging out with her old best friend again. (even though I think this friend got W into this mess with baby steps. but this girl also has told me she is discusted with what W is doing.. maybe after time W will see what a W H and kids look like in the same house??)
W made a few comments on "Thought she was unhappy here" and "Lost everything" IDK prob still has her head so high up in the clouds still
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