Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

gima,

to be honest, I haven't been happy in a long time. I am just now realizing that.

In the past, my W has done similar things to make ME feel like I did something wrong. She would either tell a small lie, stretch the truth to make it fit, or change the story to cover her a$$. I, for the longest time - accepted that behavior from her, after all, I loved her, she MUST be telling the truth - RIGHT?

I will no longer feel bad for the way she acts/conducts herself. I cannot control her. She is doing everything on her own.

I will no longer allow ANYONE to lie to me, and feel bad for them doing so.

I will NEVER enable another person by accepting behavior that I know is detrimental to my relationship with that person.

I CAN'T fix my wife...