God, that is so sad. She clearly needs help but as Greek & I were telling another man about his W, the H is usually not the one that can get her to go b/c she resents him trying to "fix" her.

Stuck, the advice people have for each other is great, and what Michele has in her books is wonderful, but you know that God can do all things if we have faith in Him and not stop praying for her. It seems that nothing will get better until she is well. I wished you could move on, but I think it pains you so much seeing her in this state until it holds you back.

I have told so many that I think a WAW has to see where she suffers loss or shock from her decision to leave. She didn't react to your dating, and now I'm wondering if she did not join you and the girls for family things how she would respond. If there's nothing......and if she doesn't have any of the other signs that you read about in a WAW....(and I don't see it right now)....then it sure sounds like it could be medical. IDK. It just looks like her parents would try to talk to her. Can't they see what kind of shape she's in?


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