Looking for some more help.

[TrentC]

Thanks Trent. The one question I have though is when do you go to the extremes of LRT?

The last resort technique is exactly that -- you use it when you think you the relationship is over and you have nothing left to lose. It's called the LRT because it may not work if things have degenerated too far.

The important part is to project an air of calm, positive confidence. You want to be someone that is attractive to be around. And pulling back from her is a good way to cultivate interest on her part.