Wow, remember the D papers are just that - papers. I will have to catch up on your sitch, but I've noticed quite a few people who have pieced their marriages back together after the D was settled! Sandi2 said sometimes it takes a D to finally and truly drop the rope and that is a better starting point? I don't know. Remember your experiences and feelings together matter more than a piece of paper.

My sitch is similar. Now that we are settling our legal separation any day now, we have started MC and are doing better than ever. ???

Where do you live? I'll send some California sunshine your way! smile I'm actually itching for some snow - may take S to the mountains this weekend.
PS our sons were born the same year too!

Last edited by Hope4Luv; 01/05/10 05:38 AM.

Me: 42
Him: 43

Two divorcees in a relationship