I have to start DB'ing the correct way, people on these boards have been telling me things since November I should have been doing, but my emotions always take charge and I screw it up.
You can't force her to want to be with you, but you can attract her towards you.
Read the books. Follow the plan.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement