She later said that she had wanted to S to see if we would miss each other and that I might be surprised and not miss her. I told W that I already knew from my standpoint, I have been without you for a year now and know that I miss you (bad DB but I felt honesty was appropriate in this particular situation).
that's right, Junco. There is a place for the truth to be spoken. And it is more effective than any prepared speech you can come up with. Marriage is all about communication. When people speak from the heart, and the other spouse listens from the heart, it makes a connection.
i think you should tell her about Retrouvaille and the 4 stages of marriage. It is so true. there is hope here.
