different face on the 'source of their discontent'. That is typically when they start to realize that they are their own source of misery. It sets in that they tore apart a family because of their own selfishness and then they start to regret it.

Yep, that says it all. Love is a choice. A happy marriage is a choice. The WAS blames the LBS for the problem when they need to look in the mirror.

My W went to one counseling session with me and had her a$$ handed to her. She didn't believe what he was telling her. She refuses to go back.Too bad.

Hope you had a good day GIMA!


Me:49
W: 41
Kids=D14/D14/S10
Married: 15
Together: 16
Bomb: 08/26/09
Currently: separated but in the different houses.