Thanks, I appreciate, Kerry. You're right. If my brother doesn't want my help or my advice, I can't help him. All I can do is stand by him and wait until/if he sees he needs help. I suspect though he will be more likely to turn to friends who don't really have a moral compass and adhere to more worldly views about M and D.

My brother doesn't need the advice of unwise people, be they friends or not. He needs to C'ing and he needs legal representation and advice.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.