No, not at all. He's been agnostic for many years now. That was even one of the flimsy reasons SIL stated that she found impossible with my brother. I agree it's a problem, and I have been trying to work on K for some time now, using some subtle logic from Christian Apologetics and helping him to open his heart to what God can do in his life. But no, even if he remains an unbeliever, the Bible does not support SIL's rationale for ending their M.
I did suggest C. In fact, I told him that they both are in serious need of C'ing. She took him to her personal IC, but that was all to just convince K to accept SIL's side of things. She and the IC now have my brother convinced he has Asperger's and too damaged empathically to be married in the first place. My brother needs his own IC, someone who is not so obviously biased in favor of SIL's schemes.
And no, K is not AS. Of we three brothers, he's the one who has always had close friends and fits in with so many people; no social ineptness, and very sensitive to others. I used to admire his rapport with his children.
But to hear him now... he thinks he is so messed up. They have done such a number on his head...
