luvless,

I have HARD evidence as well, but she refuses to admit to ANYTHING. She deflects all of it into it being MY fault. No admission, just deflect to what I have done to help with the demise of the M. Wouldn't it be easier to repair the M if they just admit to the A, so that the repair and work could be done?

I think my W is so far into her issues that she believes that she is too far gone to ever come back. Her brothers have told her they want nothing to do with her, and I know this hurts her-and she blames ME for that division.


What has she to lose by D me? She probably feels like she has lost everything anyway-but I can't mind read.

I am preparing myself for D. It's all I know right now-W has NO intention of working with me.

Last edited by SoldierDad; 01/05/10 04:21 AM.

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