okay, now I'm going to talk about what your doing.
remember, the goal of DB is to...
1. STOP CHASING 2. GAL 3. WAIT
what have you done recently? you asked him about the email...that's CHASING...your wanting to email the girl...more chasing.
you need to stop the chasing and start GALing.
I KNOW i need to do this - not for him for me - it's all I have left
2 things.
why do you think he has an alcohol problem? from what you have written lately, I'm not seeing it. Is he getting drunk everyday, or 4-5 times a week? is he missing work because of it? Has this been a long term thing, or when did it start?
He's always drank - never knows when to stop is the problem. He is getting drunk more than normal. The kids don't like it and voice their opinion and he still does it. He hasn't missed work because of it - yet.
as G said, this will make a difference in setting boundaries, so the answers are important.
M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
