Cutter, the reality is that you don't have to stay with Ladybug. You do have a longer history than I do with WH but (sadly) you don't have kids together. NOT that having kids should be the only reason to stay with someone but if you love the person AND share kids,it makes it more compelling to try to make it work.
Everyone knows that the BS has every right to stay or go no matter if there are kids or not. But, I feel uncomfortable saying this, I honestly think it is easier to GO when there aren't kids involved. Easy shmeesy...it's all relative.
And you can see how you feel next week! If you are at a minimum letting go of the rope, then that is a-ok.Letting go does not mean anything permanent.
NOW if you decide to hold on a little longer...so what if ladybug blows up at you and gets pissed. It doesn't mean anything!! Any human being would get mad if their former spouse stopped communicating with them altogether. Keep sticking to your plan.
Is your SIL all right? And how did YOU end up taking her to the hospital?
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004