okay, now I'm going to talk about what your doing.
remember, the goal of DB is to...
1. STOP CHASING 2. GAL 3. WAIT
what have you done recently? you asked him about the email...that's CHASING...your wanting to email the girl...more chasing.
you need to stop the chasing and start GALing.
2 things.
why do you think he has an alcohol problem? from what you have written lately, I'm not seeing it. Is he getting drunk everyday, or 4-5 times a week? is he missing work because of it? Has this been a long term thing, or when did it start?
as G said, this will make a difference in setting boundaries, so the answers are important.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
