I think one day they will figure it out...too late
I agree you may be right...
I won't shut the door on a relationship with my H in the future however I have had 11 months to figure out what I want in a mate...
He had 22 years to get it right and for whatever reason, I just wasn't good enough from the get go and for whatever reason, I never saw it.
Sounds like we are on the same plan. I will remain open to a R with my W, but I am no longer waiting on her to figure that out. She's had over 8 months now, adn all I have heard is "nothing has changed" in her mind.