Not Me...Ever part 2

[Serenity13]

(((GIMA)))

Thank you for your kind words...

Thank you for your prayers...

You all are always in my prayers as are the spouses that walked away...

Maybe someday soon these prodigal spouses will remove the blinders from their eyes and return home...

That is my wish for us all.

[givingitmyall]

(((GIMA)))

Thank you for your kind words...

Thank you for your prayers...

You all are always in my prayers as are the spouses that walked away...

Maybe someday soon these prodigal spouses will remove the blinders from their eyes and return home...

That is my wish for us all.

I think one day they will figure it out...too late.

[Serenity13]

(((GIMA)))

I think one day they will figure it out...too late

I agree you may be right...

I won't shut the door on a relationship with my H in the future however I have had 11 months to figure out what I want in a mate...

He had 22 years to get it right and for whatever reason, I just wasn't good enough from the get go and for whatever reason, I never saw it.

[givingitmyall]

(((GIMA)))

I think one day they will figure it out...too late

I agree you may be right...

I won't shut the door on a relationship with my H in the future however I have had 11 months to figure out what I want in a mate...

He had 22 years to get it right and for whatever reason, I just wasn't good enough from the get go and for whatever reason, I never saw it.

Sounds like we are on the same plan. I will remain open to a R with my W, but I am no longer waiting on her to figure that out. She's had over 8 months now, adn all I have heard is "nothing has changed" in her mind.

[Serenity13]

No longer waiting on something that should have never happened to begin with is the way I am trying to look at it...

Patience has never been one of my stronger suits so the fact that I am still here many moons later says something lol.

I hear the same thing you hear...I also get I love you's thrown in the mix...I think he does that to keep me off balance...

This whole situation just sucks however so many good things have come out of it as well, so I am grateful for the opportunity that God gave me to take this journey.

[Gardener]

Serenity,

Maybe someday soon these prodigal spouses will remove the blinders from their eyes

As I've posted several times in the past, "I will be fine again but I'm afraid my former friend is in for a big fall, eventually."

and return home..That is my wish for us all.

Alas, for me at least, it will be too late by then for that (in fact, it is already).

Sleep well, tonight, Serenity.

[Serenity13]

(((Gardener)))

I slept in heavenly peace and you put it yesterday...

I awoke and watched the sunrise again then with joy in my heart and a lighter step, I set about my day...

I am leaving for a bit...I have to go see my lawyer today so send up a prayer for me.

Have a wonderful blessed day.

[givingitmyall]

so send up a prayer for me

Done.

[Serenity13]

(((GIMA)))

Thank you my friend.

[givingitmyall]

No problem.