This is complete script and to be expected. No matter how "nice" you are, the D will be unpleasant and she will not get what she thinks she should be entitled to. She will interpret this as you being nasty and will throw all sorts of blame your direction - even though none of this is what you are asking for.
Just stay strong and stand up for yourself. One line that someone gave me: "You can have your freedom w, but you can't have mine"
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I replied: W, I will let my attorney handle all of that.
Perfect Answer!
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.