Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Even if you think it doesn't mean much.....do you believe she may think you could expect sex from her?

I dont see how, that hasn't happened nor anything even remotely close since she dropped the bomb. Is this a topic I should bring up? Heck, there hasn't even been a kiss since that day, she no longer will undress if I'm around, etc.

Never heard of such nonsense! But if she is on medication, that "could" explain some mood swings. I just wouldn't blame them all on meds.

That was jab at me for spying on her computer and phone in the past to catch her at the EA and catch what I still think was an attempt at disguised communication on facebook. She knows how much I was looking before. I actually think I gained some trust/respect on this one, she was gone for a half a day and told me she assumed I would have gone thru her medication and computer again. She told me she checked both. She admitted she realized I hadn't gone thru either. Also, I'm not so sure the medication is causing the mood swing, not at all.

Onward march...I like the positive vibes form that advice. Because it has been a positive day so far. She has reached out to communicate with me a few times today, all very upbeat, positive, friendly. She even talked about how tomorrow morning's workout is "going to be fun"...so its either a fix from contact from OM or possibly positive energy from starting the exercise partnership.

I am keeping a close eye. I know my W, I think the EA is going to be hard for her to quit and despite what she thinks of OM, I think he's a player and is probably experienced at this and I doubt he's been scared because he is so far away, he probably feels safe. But quite simply, all I can do is watch for indicators...I no longer have access to what I had access to before on the computer.

Thanks again, I so much appreciate your insight on things