Well, I waited a whole night (patient me!) before posting the obvious. This must be a test!
So, I'd guess we gotta apply DB principles. We'll detach, GAL, go dark, in lovingly NC, but appreciative and validating, maybe even do a Gucci and start "seeing" other vets here. Sooner or later, Coach will be curious and start popping by again. And if not, we'll all be stronger persons and emerge better anyway. We'll handle it.
Tongue planted FIRMLY in cheek.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
