More noise was coming from her later in the day and I got fed up and said:

Quote:
Please divorce me or come back to the marriage. In or Out - just pick one or the other please. If you pick divorce we can go to the mediator. Time for us to move on from this limbo. If you choose marriage my only demands right now are to end your relationship and start working on M.


W: then schedule the mediator <she then added a bunch of justification about the fact that our situation is no different now after OM than it was before, blah blah blah>


Even afterward she kept using the word "separate because this situation isn't good for our kids" and I answered "divorce".

separation=limbo in my situation - divorce or commit to the M are the only choices <thanks for the moral support on this GIMA>

ME/XW:47
S21, D19, S15, S14
M:21 T:26
W moved 6/10 I filed 7/10 D final 4/12 remarried 8/12
W wants to R 12/10 and 4/11 but I decline