Hi Newmama, I'm not exactly sure what I'm asking for. Possibly whether anyone has dealt with this as a component of mlc. I'm also angry that he's pretending that this is all about his being unhappy and concealing the OW (he'll never reveal the bi-x stuff, and I wouldn't want him to our children).
He was still wearing his wedding band til I asked him to remove it(but he's pretty Passive Aggressive so it was maybe to annoy me).
What do people do about telling their kids there is an OW, and how old is appropriate to do that? One poster here said they insisted their h tell his parents about the mistress.
I guess I'm also asking for verification that is is just so far gone as to be no hope (altho one friend of mine says where there is God there is always hope!)