Thanks girls.

IRMAC - I am on FB. I haven't decided if I want to use it or start a separate account just for DB friends. I think some others here are doing that. I'll let you know.

Karen - Always good to hear from you and what you went through. I never, never, never thought I would be able to sit in front of my H and discuss a D. Now I'm almost looking forward to it? I found myself singing that 60's song this afternoon - "What goes up, must come down" (by....I can't remember who) - as I was writing some more notes to myself concerning the conference. Weird how it just popped into my head.

Pearl - You sure are the traveling girl. Let me know when you want to travel south. Of course I'll have to move first and set up a guest bedroom. I'm not looking for a condo but I do want an artsy house near downtown with a fenced yard. I have two dogs, one of which weighs 110 lbs.

Ah, the heels. Will 3 inch black suede ankle boots do? H is used to seeing me in either Danskos or sneakers. Not that he will notice or that I'll be wearing them for him.


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10