did read the books and do the program.
I just got done telling her that I feel that living in the other house has let me realize the man that I want to be and I am progressing towards that man every day. I said that I will be moving back home tomorrow and that she is free to do whatever she likes. I told her that asking me to be her emotional support, taking out the garbage, lifting heavy things, fixing things that break is a bunch of b.s. and that I will no longer cater to her. I told her I will have my own lawyer and they will work out the details for me. (she wanted to share a lawyer and have everything be civil.) f- it , I'm making a stand for what I believe in. She got pissed, said she will find an apartment, buy new furniture blah blah blah..... (she knows we can't afford these things, but I am a tightwad and I know she thought I would crack on this, but I didn't)
I wonder if she can hear me now.
I feel good, I know that I am stable, confident and secure. I am ready for anything. Keep me informed on what to expect next and how to handle the sitch
thanks again
We will c what tomorrow brings.


me 31
her 31
ilybinilwy 10-2-09
i moved out 12-13-09
boy 7
girl 3
boy 16 months