Due to her anger and controlling behaviors. She says she doesn't need counseling.
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you cut off contact with OM, become transparent, and demonstrate growth with respect to anger and controlling behaviors.
She says she has cut off contact w/ OM, she has not become transparent though--she says she will give me the OM's name when she is home. She doesn't believe that she has an anger or control problem--hence the need for counseling in my unprofessional opinion.
What boundaries would you suggest so it looks like I'm not the one who is controlling?
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!