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Why is counseling so important to you?


Due to her anger and controlling behaviors. She says she doesn't need counseling.

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you cut off contact with OM, become transparent, and demonstrate growth with respect to anger and controlling behaviors.

She says she has cut off contact w/ OM, she has not become transparent though--she says she will give me the OM's name when she is home. She doesn't believe that she has an anger or control problem--hence the need for counseling in my unprofessional opinion.

What boundaries would you suggest so it looks like I'm not the one who is controlling?


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!