Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Ok,
woke up to these texts from my W:

Well SD, OM was told today but tht is not what was keeping me from working on this marriage i cant forget or fogive just as u cant

I replied with: please don't put words in my mouth-you don't know what I can forgive or forget

W replied with: Then its me SD i cant forgive or forget the distrust u have in me we can do this civil or not its up to u

I replied: No problem, we will continue just as if we never discussed any of that stuff. It isn't what I wanted to do, but it is your decision - you have to live with it and the outcome. I will continue my pursuit in the divorce.

It seems my W is headed back into the fog. She says she notified OM, but THAT isn't what is keeping her from working on the M - it is the distrust I have in her!!!

I just KNEW as soon as she got back to work, around her "friends" and others that this was going to happen.

Guess I get to sit back and get ready for more nonsense.