hey..when you say no, don't say it expecting him to be upset, say it in a happy voice like your excited to do whatever it is your doing.
(fyi, it's still MHO to give a heads up on the garnishment...even if you write a letter. he's gonna find out one way or another, and I think it's more respectful to tell him yourself..although I know it would be hard and scary, but that's just MHO)
you can do it!!!
Ok St..I will act upbeat and happy even thru a text which is his favorite choice of communication!
Today he came for a visit and stayed an hour. Its been beautiful out so he wanted to take baby for a walk. I had to go with. I really didn't want to, but went. Things were fine and we acted like friends. Nothing real personal at all, just smalltalk. When he left I said bye and didn't even stop what I was doing.
I am really going to do the garnishment now. The company he works for has been rather slow lately and he most likely will be short on money. Guess who would be the first to be asked to skip payment? Me!
MNF tonight. Can't go. No sitter
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
