Good job on the snoooping resolution. I snooped to find out what the hell was going on. Once I found out I should have stopped ASAP. The whole process caused massive anxiety and led to arguments, which in our situation is a big no no. Plus some of the stuff I saw still haunts me to this day. They are going to do what they are going to do and snooping will only make them lie and shroud themselves in more secrecy.
