One good thing. Today I picked the girls up from school, we went back to the apartment and ate. When the after-school sitter got there at 3:30 p.m. I dropped them off and went back to work.

My major resolution -- in terms of my sitch -- for 2010 was not to snoop as I work on not caring what she does. Step one is to take myself out of the environment. Being there every day after school is like giving an alcoholic free reign in a liquor store.

D10 asked me why we were switching and I didn't think before I said, "D10, I don't live there any more. I shouldn't be over there every day."

I then asked if it was OK and she said yes.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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