When I left the house this morning, she asked what the smell in our bedroom was. I said cologne. She asked what's it called. When I came home today she had her face all made up and she said she only went to the grocery store w/ S3. She is noticing the changes. She keeps testing me about talking about R. I am continuing to listen and validate and keep my eyes open and my mouth shut. (Thanks OldPilot)
I'll ask again:
She wants clear explanations of how different things are going to work around the house.(i.e. bills, housework, taking care of S3, etc.) I feel that she wants this b/c her world is spinning. I have delayed for now by validating her feelings and saying I needed time to think about it. I feel that she is looking for ways to control the sitch. Any ideas on keeping the sitch fuzzy?
Or am I off base? Just tell me. Thanks.
"The first step in the acquisition of wisdom is silence, the second listening, the third memory, the fourth practice, the fifth teaching others." Solomon Ibn Gabriol
