This is more of venting and perhaps some questioning about what normal is like. Today I find my SIL's obit on Google! From Sept! You would think my bro would call me or something. We werent' close but I invited them to every major event in my family life and called my SIL during my lunch hour while she was going through chemo and radiation. Much of this year when I called I had to leave messages - mostly - call me!

I left another message today. Why didn't you call me? What I don't know is if no one was contacted or just me.

And I wonder why I have trouble in relationships?!


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11