What if she really isnt having an affair? Do I still go black and GAL? Should I wait for her to take an interest in me again?
yes--the same techniques are recommended and the sooner you get started, the better!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004