BEING NOSEY, NOW I HURT!!!!!!!!

[Silver Fox]

Oh honey, my H's OW has yours beat by miles. They're not all bar room skanks. Listen to this:

H's OW has a Masters degree (possibly Ph.D, not sure). She's VICE PRESIDENT of a non-profit organization that offers support for single moms and their children. She's also a huge animal rights activists.

Now on the surface she sounds great right? Well, when the bomb dropped 2 years ago my H freely talked about her - he was so "in love" and I learned this:

She has serious ADHD and OCD issues, she's controlling, neurotic, and a workaholic. She has 12 (yes 12) cats. They all have to be fed a special diet so it takes over an hour to feed them all. She spends most of her money on them as well as feeding half the wildlife in her yard. Also, she will not leave them for more than 3 days in a row - which kind of puts a damper on vacations, etc.

Not that I'm encouraging you to but if you dig a little deeper you would find your H's OW is probably a FREAK too.

Jack says it best:

A highly educated, upper class morally devoid self entitled person is still a scumbag no matter how many letters are after the name on the embossed business card

and I believe he means - is still a scumbag if they have an A with a married person.

That's the bottom line - bar room skank or Vice President. You're exactly right - you are a better person than she will ever be!

Oh and thanks for posting to my thread. I'll leave an answer for you there.

Stay strong.