2X4- It is not about getting her to switch. It is about you making a decision (without asking her) and taking action.

"I have decided __________ " with no explaining.

You chose to move out. Choose to move back in. What is best for the kids is best for you. It is best for you to be in the house. It is best for them to see you stand up for what you believe in.


It is good she is reading those books. I strongly suggest you read the books also.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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