Can someone tell me how the kids don't bear the brunt anyway? And if there's no real deterrent, then more and more kids will bear the brunt.

If people continue to treat M's as easily disposable arrangements, then kids will always be the ones caught in the middle.

Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.