Ok...again very interesting debate....I am on Kerry's side on this one. I think the adulterer should be more hurt financially. That symptom thing is still something I struggle with. I think adultery is just a weakness. Maybe even a sign of our consumer driven times. Why fix it if you can buy a new one. However, Kerry when you write that they are the most hurt by infidelity, that would require a conscience. I am not sure that they actually have one or even consider what they did as a mistake. If that were the case, adulterers would not be recidivists.