Originally Posted By: scared n alone
I have started the detachment....no rings, taken down all pics of him (including wedding). Scary but reality I guess


That's not detachment. Detachment is allowing yourself to let go of responsibility for his actions and reactions.

Here is a good article about detachment:

http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

(I'm crossposting to your thread so we can stop hijacking this one...)

Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."