Do you think it would be a mistake for me and my H to do things together with the kids? For example, D8 has a birthday soon. I think H belongs at her party because he is her father. D10 has an important ceremony coming up, and H will be there. We will sit together, because it's what is best for her.
Our kids know that even if we can't be H and W, we will always be mom and dad.
The kids want to to an amusement park. They would like Dad to go. Do you think that's a bad idea?