What to do when H doesn't contact?

[dday101798]

dday, how did you get past all of the depression and your ex blaming you for everything that went wrong?

I'm an analytical thinker. So, when I could finally set my emotions aside (and listen to others), I just picked it all apart. Searched for the truth, if any in the accusation, and either reasonsed, yes I was wrong on the aspect or is the accusation completely ludicris. In the end, there is validity to what the WAS is saying, but a lot of it becomes a fish story of sorts and that's the part that you need to dispense of.

Then you realise, there isn't much to be depressed about. I mean, yeah they're gone, that's enough on it's own, but it's a lot easier when you can look in the mirror and know YOU single handedly are not to blame and You know that accusations of you are either true or false and to what extent.

I'm not sure I follow on what happened with S19. You didn't get him a card?