Givingitmyall Thanks for the list, it really helps to read this over and over again. I think I will look at this every time I get the urge to contact him. I will also take your advice and keep my posts to the Newcomers forum. I'm on day 3 of not contacting him about us at all. I did have to call him last night, but it was only about something to do with the kids. It's been 2 days sense I've cried, so it does seem to get easier. I will have to see him Tuesday night, but only for a minute. I plan on just saying "hi" & "bye" and nothing else, unless he starts a conversation.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
