CTH, I would hold off also, my W contacted a lawyer and it is turning into something neither of us wanted and it feels so out of control. Maybe you could just go for a consultation get a dose of reality of the divorce process. There are other forms of moving on, acceptance etc. Deep breathing, don't do something you might regret later.
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