Trent - of course I want my marriage to work. I know I need to get a handle on my emotions...I do. The only reason I haven't filed for divorce is because I have no concrete evidence. I am not beating up my H he is doing it to me. I think I've been supportive and understanding enough! I am standing my ground and will not let him walk all over me.

I have nothing else to do right now but work on me. I have no control over his behavior. He has been sending me mixed messages and I'm sick of it.

Right now all I can do is take care of me and my kids.


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10