Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
Weird feeling today. The L is supposed to call me this afternoon. My resolve starts to crumble but then I imagine W out partying 'til the cows come home on New Years and it gets my focus back.

Just saying the words "I want a divorce" is going to be difficult.


So you're saying that you are filing for divorce because your W went to a party?

Your resolve is crumbling because you are using anger as a motivation.

Do you think you would be less angry when your XW goes to a party next new years eve?

You really need to talk to your wife about changing your original agreement. There are multiple reasons for this the biggest being that if a court sees that what you have in place is working they will not change it. Do this before you file because after you cross that line it is war and you are dealing with a ticking time bomb.

By the way, when you calculate CS the non-custody parent should get credit for the days they have custody. So if you have 50% custody you should get a % of from the established 26% you stated in a previous post.


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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
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B 5/08
S 1/09