You are hysterical! We are clones because MANY of us have far more experience in this area than you? Somehow all of us are lemmings and you, the famous "stander", know best?

As I just said to Dane on his thread I am really wondering what the point of a "real time" system is when the same advice is doled out on an hourly basis yet it rarely is considered and implemented.

You have a say in a ton of stuff but you don't make a peep. What you would like a say in (your W dating and not divorcing you) you are still clinging to.

Since you are so sure this is *all* about not confusing and protecting your children then why are you not addressing the questions I asked you about other *very* confusing behaviors (the "happy family" holiday and b-day, the lack of dedication to finishing out a program)?

We want to help and support you but when it comes to brass tacks your responses are predictable and include...

<sigh>
she wins
I quit
I am protecting my kids

And my favorite from today... calling the very people that have stuck by you for months and months clones.